Okay, let’s settle this once and for all, because it’s the kind of trivia that haunts you at 2 AM: how old was Tom Holland in 2017? Spoiler alert: he wasn’t a baby, but he wasn’t exactly buying his own beer, either.

In 2017, Tom Holland was 21 years old. Born on June 1, 1996, he was exactly one year into his reign as the web-slinger, having just premiered Spider-Man: Homecoming in July of that year. So picture it: a 21-year-old, still young enough to pass for a high school sophomore, running around in a spandex suit while making awkward small talk with Robert Downey Jr.—who was, let’s be real, probably old enough to be his dad. (Iron Man, not his actual dad. His actual dad is a comedian. Go figure.)

And here’s the wild part: while the rest of us were celebrating our 21st by doing questionable things with Jell-O shots, Tom was busy being the face of a billion-dollar franchise. He was legally old enough to drink champagne at the premiere—but also young enough to still get a “you wouldn’t get it” from the bouncer at his own afterparty. Talk about a superhero origin story.

But here’s the uplifting bit: Tom Holland in 2017 wasn’t just a number. He was proof that you can be 21, incredibly talented, and still trip over a fan’s camera bag at the airport. He showed us all that age is just a number, but so is confidence, kindness, and the ability to do a backflip. So whether you’re 21 or 81, take a page from Tom’s book: you’re never too old for a little webslinging—and you’re definitely never too old for a good laugh at your own expense.

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